I’ve never been Scheana’s biggest fan. Ever since she waltzed through the back doors of SUR after her conversation with Brandi, I had her number. She is a pick me, a guy’s girl, the center of attention at all times…she is always on the wrong side of history.
Scheana Shay is the definition of ‘a friend to everyone is a friend to no-one’ and we’re seeing it play out in front of our eyes.
Tom Sandoval cheated on his partner of 10 years and Scheana has the nerve to ask why no one is focusing on how this affects her? That’s a crazy statement! If one of my best friends was cheated on by her partner, who I was also friends with, I would never look at them again. She wouldn’t even have to ask me!
I understand that they are on a television show and need to get along, but there is no reason Scheana should be campaigning so hard to forgive Tom. She can just be cordial and be on the show, she doesn’t have to kiss his ass or beg Ariana to let her be friends with him.
Tom Sandoval is not a good person and as Katie said in tonight’s episode, he isn’t owed anything from anyone. He has treated these people horribly for years, including Katie. The way he interfered in Schwartz and Katie’s marriage should be enough for half the group to cut him off.
He is the one who persuaded Raquel to get the restraining order, he is the one who spread the rumors about Raquel and Brock, and he is the one who screamed at Scheana on the phone saying they were never friends. He made it very clear last year how he felt about Scheana and now she’s crying about not wanting to give up that friendship?
How does any of that make sense? I would never want to be friends with someone who did that to me, TV show or not.
The problem with Scheana is that she never sees herself as the main character when the show was quite literally built around her. She is the first person we meet on Vanderpump Rules, she had a baby, two weddings, a divorce, multiple season long storyline hookups, injuries, songs, etc happen on this show. If the show wasn’t about Stassi, Kristen or Jax, the show has usually been about Scheana. Why can’t she see that?
If you don’t think it’s true, please go watch this TikTok video which is what inspired this post.
Everything is always about Scheana so for her to sit there and say that Ariana knew how much she wanted Dancing With the Stars is insane. Saying in her confessional that Ariana has come a long way from being her backup dancer is not something you say about your best friend.
Scheana is a flip flopper who wants to play both sides of the fence and has been since the series began. This is a girl who cried to the wife of the home she wrecked and said ‘How do you think I feel? He made me fall in love with him and I found out he had a wife and kids.” That’s an insane statement to say to the wife of your affair partner.
She said tonight ‘I need to learn how to put myself first” and I thought I was going to have a stroke. In what way in 11 years on this show has she not put herself first? Also, there’s nothing wrong with putting yourself first but Scheana is gaslighting us and I’m tired of it.
She is 38 years old…if she hasn’t changed by now, she never will. Maybe at the reunion she’ll get a wakeup call. I hope Ariana holds her feet to the fire and Andy can explain how things on the show have always been about Scheana, and even if they’re not, it doesn’t mean you’re not important.
She needs to learn how to genuinely care about other people and not make their problems about her.
Will she? Probably not but I guess we’ll be watching.